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God’s Word teaches us to love one another.  But that is extremely difficult when they rub us the wrong way!  If you’re like me, you find...

You might ask, “Why is a relationship intelligence company talking about my choice of vacation for my family?”  Well, there is a direct...

Leaders are often the target of criticism.  They do their best to lead well and make decisions that will be best for everyone, yet they...

One of the greatest needs we have as human being is to be heard and understood.  Dr. Leon F. Seltzer* says that being heard and...

Have you ever had someone go silent on you when you are in conflict? You are confused and don’t know what to do? How can you respond so...

Almost everyone I know hates conflict.  Just the mention of the word creates anxiety for some.  It doesn’t take much to recall the...

Being a great listener is the best way to show someone how much you care about them.  By listening well, you demonstrate how much you...

Conflict is painful.  It is destructive to families, businesses, and to ministries.  It leaves people feeling like a failure believing...

Having been married for 40 years to someone who is extremely cautious, I can share with you some things that I have learned.  I’m still...

It is easy to identify the “warning signs” to post on other’s foreheads.  I can picture that person with a sign saying, “Beware – I talk...

In a recent article written by Debra J. VanderVoort, of the University of Hawaii, she states that research has demonstrated that an...

Don’t assume we all make decisions in the same way, because we don’t.  If you make this mistake, you will often find yourself frustrated...

If you are like me, you sometimes get discouraged and are tempted to give up.  Often the difference between failure and success is...

The statistics coming out of China are alarming when it comes to the spike of divorce resulting from the COVID-19 virus.  Being locked...

Just about everyone is currently sheltering in place under the recommendation or order of their elected officials.  We share a common...

I’m sure you have heard people say things like, “He really knows how to push my buttons.”  It is a phrase that has been repeated over and...

It is Valentine’s Day and you want to communicate how much you love that special person.  What should you say?  We want to help you...

Many would say no.  At least very few have ever experienced a stress-free Christmas.  Even the first Christmas was not stress free.  Mary...

After we were married, we discovered that we were very different people.  I loved her and she loved me.  But she didn’t love all the...

I was reflecting on a Ted Talk that I viewed a while ago about how the very things that drive us crazy in our kids may actually be their...