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Reverse Engineer Your Strengths
Maybe you’ve heard the adage, “If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.”
Del Fehsenfeld
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When Good Strengths Go Bad
“That couch is not coming into this house!” My friend and I stood balancing the weight of a large couch while straddling the stairs of my...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


The Perception Trap
It’s normal to interpret your spouse’s behaviors (their “what”) by your own motivations (your “why”). In fact, it’s almost inevitable....
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


Be the Gift
To be human is to be fired into life on a quest for love. The reason for this is the divine shape of the human soul. We were made by a...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


The Three Passions of Your Soul
We live in a world of hype that promises all the benefits without hassle or delay. New and improved! Amazing and essential! Guaranteed...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


Discover Your Relational Superpowers
Most people use their strengths reflexively. That means they use about eight to twelve strengths about 80% of the time, based on what...
Del Fehsenfeld
1 min read

Are You a Snowplow, Submarine, or Ambulance?
The big idea that the SDI unlocks is that the what of a person’s behavior is best understood by knowing the why of a person’s...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


What’s Driving Your Conflict?
Would you give your sixteen-year-old the car keys without showing them which pedal was the brake? Yet the majority of us do something...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


How Much Do Your Relationships Cost?
How much is subpar teamwork costing your organization? How much lost time, missed opportunities, lack of collaboration, and halfhearted...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


From Love, Through Love, To Love
You were made for relationships. The timeless wisdom of the Bible speaks to our origins in the God of love who made human beings from...
Del Fehsenfeld
3 min read


What’s Your Relationship IQ?
Did you know that being good at relationships is a kind of intelligence? You’ve probably heard that people have different intelligence...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


Seeing Red
“I can’t believe anyone would start with assertiveness [red] in conflict!” My very people-motivated (blue) friend sat in the corner with...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


You Can Have Eternal Impact Through Relational Intelligence
Consentia Group is all about helping you achieve eternal impact through relationships. Why? Because healthy relationships are the key to...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read

The ABCs of Relating Effectively
Relationships can often be tough to navigate, because we are not all wired the same. Knowing what is important to a person is critical,...
Bruce Terpstra
3 min read


How Does Spiritual Maturity Impact My SDI 2.0?
Over the past ten years, Consentia Group has assessed and trained more than 12,000 people with the SDI 2.0. Our work has been primarily...
Bruce Terpstra
6 min read


What’s in Your Buckets?
We all have buckets that we need to have filled. When they are full, we feel satisfied, and life seems good. Living with emotional...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


4 Keys to Loving Those Who Rub Us the Wrong Way
God’s Word teaches us to love one another. But that is extremely difficult when they rub us the wrong way! If you’re like me, you find...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


How Flexible is Your Leadership Style?
Experts on leadership tell us that using just one style of leadership limits our success. Different situations require different styles...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


Choosing the Best Vacation for Your Family
You might ask, “Why is a relationship intelligence company talking about my choice of vacation for my family?” Well, there is a direct...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


Key Reasons Leaders are Criticized for Being Wrong
Leaders are often the target of criticism. They do their best to lead well and make decisions that will be best for everyone, yet they...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read
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