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Discover Your Relational Superpowers
Most people use their strengths reflexively. That means they use about eight to twelve strengths about 80% of the time, based on what...
Del Fehsenfeld
1 min read


Are You a Snowplow, Submarine, or Ambulance?
The big idea that the SDI unlocks is that the what of a person’s behavior is best understood by knowing the why of a person’s...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


What’s Driving Your Conflict?
Would you give your sixteen-year-old the car keys without showing them which pedal was the brake? Yet the majority of us do something...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


How Does Spiritual Maturity Impact My SDI 2.0?
Over the past ten years, Consentia Group has assessed and trained more than 12,000 people with the SDI 2.0. Our work has been primarily...
Bruce Terpstra
6 min read


What’s in Your Buckets?
We all have buckets that we need to have filled. When they are full, we feel satisfied, and life seems good. Living with emotional...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


4 Keys to Loving Those Who Rub Us the Wrong Way
God’s Word teaches us to love one another. But that is extremely difficult when they rub us the wrong way! If you’re like me, you find...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


How Flexible is Your Leadership Style?
Experts on leadership tell us that using just one style of leadership limits our success. Different situations require different styles...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


Key Reasons Leaders are Criticized for Being Wrong
Leaders are often the target of criticism. They do their best to lead well and make decisions that will be best for everyone, yet they...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


Do You Know Your Achilles Heel?
Knowing our Achilles matters. Being unaware or cloudy about our vulnerabilities leads us wide open to destruction. Usually, the...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


The One Habit That Will Change Your Life (and it probably isn’t what your thinking)
In the book, Atomic Habits by James Clear, he claims that remarkable results are caused by tiny changes. I believe he is right. There...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


The Most Common Conflict Trigger for People and How to Relate
What is the most common conflict trigger for people? I don’t have scientific research to prove what I am about to say, but after...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


Tips On How To Deal With Controlling People
If you are reading this blog post, you probably have someone in your life that exhibits controlling behavior. Controlling people are not...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


Why Culture Eats Strategy for Breakfast and Why This is Critical for You
A well-known quote from Peter Drucker is “Culture eats strategy for breakfast”. Success of organizations are more tied to the...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


How To Stop Passive Aggressive Behavior
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who says everything is okay but you kind of feel like they are mad at you? You have...
Bruce Terpstra
6 min read


Why is Humility so Attractive in Other People?
Why is it that when you see someone acting full of themselves you are repelled but when you see someone acting humble that you find...
Bruce Terpstra
6 min read


How Does Spiritual Maturity Impact My SDI 2.0?
Over the past 10 years Consentia Group has assessed and trained more than 12000 people with the SDI 2.0. Our work has been primarily...
Bruce Terpstra
6 min read


Conflict Pitfalls to Avoid
Almost everyone I know hates conflict. Just the mention of the word creates anxiety for some. It doesn’t take much to recall the...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


What’s it like to be on the other end of you?
Core Strengths helps us to understand that we have a mixture of motivations that drive our behavior. When those motivations are about...
Bruce Terpstra
4 min read


Don’t Make This Mistake and Stunt Your Spiritual Growth
As a Christian, you want to grow spiritually. Jesus saved us not just for the life to come in eternity, but for the here and now. Jesus...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read


Stop Doing This If You Want to Be a Better Listener
Being a great listener is the best way to show someone how much you care about them. By listening well, you demonstrate how much you...
Bruce Terpstra
5 min read
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