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The Perception Trap
It’s normal to interpret your spouse’s behaviors (their “what”) by your own motivations (your “why”). In fact, it’s almost inevitable....
Del Fehsenfeld
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Be the Gift
To be human is to be fired into life on a quest for love. The reason for this is the divine shape of the human soul. We were made by a...
Del Fehsenfeld
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The Three Passions of Your Soul
We live in a world of hype that promises all the benefits without hassle or delay. New and improved! Amazing and essential! Guaranteed...
Del Fehsenfeld
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Discover Your Relational Superpowers
Most people use their strengths reflexively. That means they use about eight to twelve strengths about 80% of the time, based on what...
Del Fehsenfeld
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Are You a Snowplow, Submarine, or Ambulance?
The big idea that the SDI unlocks is that the what of a person’s behavior is best understood by knowing the why of a person’s...
Del Fehsenfeld
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What’s Driving Your Conflict?
Would you give your sixteen-year-old the car keys without showing them which pedal was the brake? Yet the majority of us do something...
Del Fehsenfeld
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How Much Do Your Relationships Cost?
How much is subpar teamwork costing your organization? How much lost time, missed opportunities, lack of collaboration, and halfhearted...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


From Love, Through Love, To Love
You were made for relationships. The timeless wisdom of the Bible speaks to our origins in the God of love who made human beings from...
Del Fehsenfeld
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What’s Your Relationship IQ?
Did you know that being good at relationships is a kind of intelligence? You’ve probably heard that people have different intelligence...
Del Fehsenfeld
2 min read


Seeing Red
“I can’t believe anyone would start with assertiveness [red] in conflict!” My very people-motivated (blue) friend sat in the corner with...
Del Fehsenfeld
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